WELCOME TO OUR NOVEMBER FEATURE OF THE MONTH – GRAYSON, THE GREY!!!!
When I first got Grayson, I was a newbie to the parrot world but I had done extensive research and knew I wanted a grey. Everyone told me, if you don’t work from home then do not get a grey. I got one anyways! (Can you say stubborn?)
Grayson chose me! I got to the breeder’s house with no clue about what to expect and there were 3 baby greys all playing around a cage. I wanted a female but they weren’t DNA tested yet so I had to wait for the results. I got first dips as I was the first customer. As I sat there, this beautiful grey kept coming over to me, kept interacting with me, I just couldn’t resist. I took notice of his band (a band is a ring of identification that they put around the bird’s feet) and told her I was very interested in that one. Their hatch dates were June 9, 11, 13, 2012. Their parents were Lady and Miata. Grayson I believe was born on June 11th or 13th, 2012 since I can’t remember we celebrate his birthday on June 12th.
I contacted the breeder in the beginning of August and I went for my first visit on August 24th, 2012. She was very knowledgeable, she tested all her breeder birds for the 4 most common diseases and she was very concerned about the babies getting properly socialized. She discussed everything with me, from temperament to cage sizes to harness training. She was just a book full of information. My son and I spent a good amount of time there before we left.
In this batch, there was 1 girl and 2 boys. Grayson turned out to be a boy and I decided since he chose me, I’m going to take him. The day that I actually went to go pick him up he was growling at me. Now they say never take a growling bird so I became hesitant at that time but I said he chose me so regardless of why he is growling now, we’ll get through it and I took him home. I took him to the vet right away as to not void her health guarantee and he got everything checked (blood work and all) and he received a clean bill of health. I think back to that day and say if I had listened to what that book said, I would have missed out on a beautiful relationship. Follow certain advice but other times you might have to go against that advice and go with your instincts.
Grayson has been through a lot with me from losing other birds, bringing home new birds, having babies in the house, me never being home, etc… But he has never changed on me. No plucking or excessive screaming or phobia to new toys. The only issue I have is, I want him to become more social with others, so we’ve been working on it.
He has come a long way, he now lets my son step him up from his cage and train him even if I’m sitting right there so progress is being made, just got to make sure it remains consistent.
If you can, let your parrot choose you….It’s not always possible but I can see the difference between the bond I have with parrots who chose me vs. ones who I just picked. Animals in general are good at sensing if they will mesh with you so better they choose.
Anyhow this was how Grayson, the grey came to live here!! Love you Grayson!!